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Accidentally, I found the phone of confidence, I call, with out any big
expectations that I will found out an exit. At the beginning, almost every
day I called and we have talk on my problem.
In first time it was enough that some one is hearing, to tell him
my problems. Later, I started to listen advises how to manage with my
situation. Freely I can tell that they have great award that I’m still
in matrimony...
... We where taken in their Crisis Center. The fear in me was present. I
thought that even here he would find me, that even here I will be exposed
on his molesting. Calm influencing was the fact that shelter is not
accessible for the public. At once, next day, the expert team of the
Center, assembled from psychologist & social worker, has taken the
care for us. They also work separately with my daughter, on which these
events unpleasant scenes in home left great marks...
... Trough talks, with cool heads again we assembled our family. Now we
are living away from his parents and again we are family in harmony. And
today also, financially it’s not easy for us. But, that’s the time, it
for all. We are trying to find the ways. The most important is that we
have a peace and one normal life, for me and also for the children. They
don’t have to be witnesses of unpleasant scenes and to see their own
mother exposed on misuse and humiliation...
... I continued to search the wife in all women association’s and
organizations. So, I called in the Crisis Center “Hope”. I can freely
say that only here I was heard. They gave me some expert’s advice and
help. When I called, I got the feeling that someone from the opposite side
of the line believed to me. Later, their crew came in to my home, to see
how I raise my children. I don’t want to say that we didn’t have
problems and arguments. Maybe I was wrong, but for everything solutions
could be found...
... One day was very hard to me, when my daughter asked me why her father
and brother don’t like her. After I cried out “thousand’s “ of
tears decided again to fight. I called in the Center, there the people
have intercept me, I give to them the full documentation from the divorce
procedure and now one lawyer prepares to raise a review of all procedure.
Again a hope has been birth in me. Maybe soon will come the day when I
will be together with my two kids...
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